Everyoneneedstobesafe,lovedandtohaveasenseofbelonging.T...

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Everyone needs to be safe,loved and to have a sense of e are inborn and natural basic an effort to have these needs satisfied,many of us tend to please it works for a find that we experience less conflict with others,but the conflict within ourselves ng "no" produces feeling of guilt and saying "yes" brings anger.

My father was in the military,so we moved g shy,I didn't make 's more,I grew up in a household where grades,image and how others saw our family were very our household a "C" was unacceptable,a "B" should have been an "A" and an "A" meant the lesson was too easy.I was too skinny,my sister was too fat and my brother's lips and ears were too big for his tiny head.

To stop pleasing others is easier said than 's a long process,one in which I am consistently working to turning point for me came shortly after I got very first thing we did to end the cycle of catering to others was develop our own identity as individuals and then as a then we developed a strong set of core（核心）values and a vision for our third and one of the most valuable things we did during this process was develop our own personal influence on others and we valued deeply the opinions of the wiser and more successful people around us.

Besides,we should understand that sometimes helping people actually hurts ggle is necessary to ggle strengthens character,making people sometimes allowing people to struggle is the best thing you can do for them.

are we likely to feel when pleasing others?

sfied.             y.                  y.               ty.

can we infer from the author's experience as a child?

grew up doing a lot of housework.                    was hard for him to adjust to the moving life.

realized the value of opinions from others.          parents had great expectations of the children.

is the third paragraph mainly about?

steps the author took to go on pleasing others.

the author stepped out of the cycle of pleasing others.

the author further developed his values and character.

the author turned to others for their valuable opinions.

does the author suggest doing?

ing others without delay.                                 sing to help others.

king twice before offering help.                       ing someone alone in trouble.

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