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You want to pass on to him/her as the foundation for your rules. Select the most important matters to make rules about.
If you want your kids to stick to the rules, make them participate in setting them up. As soon as children begin to understand things around them, make them take part in the discussion about setting up rules. If you’ve allotted (分配) an hour every day for watching television, explain to the child why you think it’s a proper duration. Tell them what they’d have to do for the rest of the time. Allotting time for homework, playing with friends, etc., must be done with the child’s participation. You can also explain the need to have a particular rule and the consequences of disobeying the rule during this discussion. The rules will then become more effective.
Once the list of rules is ready, make an artwork out of it and ensure that the kids get to see it easily while going about the house. You can hang it up behind the door to their room. Revise the rules whenever there is need, not very frequently though. After a few months, when you see that the kids are taking to a certain rule quite easily and without supervision, you may praise them for it and get rid of that rule from the list. You just need to emphasize that while you’re proud that the rule needs no reminding, it’s still an unwritten rule. These actions will enable the kids to place you in their circle of trust.
Enforcement (执行) of rules is possible only if there are clear consequences for disobeying them. Ensure that your kids understand that the consequence is the price they have to pay for breaking the rules and it’s not a punishment. Not following the rule will result in a minor or major inconvenience, so make sure you explain the consequences clearly in advance and start with warnings before strictly enforcing the rules. Ensure that none of your consequences for disobeying the rules border (近似于) on abusive parenting. For example, take off the rule that says — “if you don’t get home by 11 at night, make arrangements to stay elsewhere until morning”. Let helping with minor household chores or cleaning up their own room, etc., serve as consequences for disobeying rules.
With these tips on how to make house rules, hope you can direct your child to become a responsible and independent human being.
Tips for building house rules | |
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Keep the house rules (71) and few. | ●(72) the rules on your child’s maturity level and the target values. ●Make rules about the most important matters. |
(73) kids in setting up the rules. | ●(74) with children when making rules. ●Give children a clear (75) of the reasons for the rules and the consequences of disobeying the rules. |
Show the rules in the (76) of an artwork. | ●Put up the list of rules where it can be (77) easily. ●Make the rules revised when (78) but not very frequently. ●(79) the rules that the children can follow easily from the list. |
Make kids understand the consequences for disobeying them. | ●Make your kids have a proper (80) of the consequence--it’s not a punishment but a kind of price. ●Warn the kids of the consequences in advance. ●Don’t make abusing kids act as the consequences for disobeying the rules. |
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71. simple 72. Base 73. Involve 74. Discuss anation 76. form 77. seen 78. necessary 79. Remove 80. understanding
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